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TRAVEL GUIDE: A WEEKEND TRIP TO BEAUMONT

As someone that was born and raised in Houston, I’ve always known that I-10 East leads to Beaumont, and during my early driving years, I knew that was the way that I needed to take to get to my father and grandparent’s house. However, it wasn't until my brother decided to make Lamar University his school of choice that I ever truly visited this gem of a city that is truly “up the street.”

While I have five siblings in total when you count my step-siblings, my only biological brother, Rodney, is exactly three years and 5 days younger than me, so when he made his college decision, I was already a couple of years into my own college journey mixed with a lot of cheap booze and college parties in Baton Rouge, Louisiana.

Siblings from Left to Right:

Dexter, Rodney, Carrington, ME, Yaminco, Keairra, Summer (Sister-in-Law)

The first time that we ever discussed how/why he ended up at Lamar University in Beaumont, of all places, was on our weekend trip to revisit his alma mater and enjoy the city for Juneteenth, a now federal holiday that celebrates the day that black slaves in Texas found out they were free and had been free since 1865. While his answer might be comical to most and brutally honest to others, it was simple:

“Lamar had new dorms.”

Unless you were in the car with my family the fateful day at the end of the summer in 2003 that I was dropped off at Southern A&M University and behind me when I opened the door to my freshman suite in “historic” Boley Hall that boasted a hole big enough to crawl-in, a smell that I’m still to this day trying to identify, and dorms that had probably been standing as long as the school, I understood in my soul why that one thing was enough to seal the deal. And so in August of 2005, he made Lamar University his home for the next four years, complete with enough memories, life lessons, and nostalgia to last a lifetime.

Fun Fact: My brother and his roommates were the first tenants to stay in apartment 313, off-campus apartments that were located near Lamar University. This was their first real apartment, and let’s just say, it was party central.

In all transparency, I have not been to Beaumont since my brother’s graduation, but I was excited to collaborate with Visit Beaumont to give fresh eyes to the city that I knew very little about outside of Lamar University and White House Wednesday, a standing weekly epic college party curated by my brother and his friends, that was so legendary that I would receive calls in Louisiana from friends to help them find the little white house near the campus. It's always enlightening to view cities from the lenses of the people that have called it home at one point or another, so of course, I invited Rodney along for the ride to revisit Beaumont old and new.

For years, I’ve heard about John’s Seafood and their salt and pepper chicken, so of course, it was the first stop on the list on our arrival to the city. And while it might not fit your definition of fine-dining, it lived up to its reputation and reminded me of Timmy Chan’s, a Houston legend for fried chicken wings and fried rice.

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According to my brother, salt and pepper chicken is a Beaumont staple and the best options can be found at John’s or Kickin Chicken.

Fun Fact: One of the things that almost all of my siblings have in common is that they worked at Target during college. That wasn’t my ministry, but I definitely remember the nights pulling up on my brother at work on my way home from college when he worked at this Target in Beaumont. Needless to say, our first day in Beaumont was spent taking a walk down memory lane that included a quick tour of Lamar University, his first apartment, “his” Target, and a drive past the new and renovated White House. Unfortunately, the original was destroyed during Hurricane Ike and had to be demolished and rebuilt a few years ago.

In typical sibling fashion with a splash of Kanye, I allowed him to show his wife, Whitney, and I, “his” Beaumont, but I knew from stalking Visit Beaumont’s Instagram page and website that Beaumont has grown and evolved tremendously since he called it home as a college student. That night and Day 2 were my time to shine, and as a travel blogger and travel company owner, I have a niche for locating gems in any city. Before embarking on any trip, I create a travel itinerary using my wanderlust planner, and I had more than a handful of gems that I knew I wanted to try and visit over the weekend. After visiting with some friends, I took Rodney and Whitney to dinner at Ko Korean, a Korean BBQ gem located next to Beaumont’s only rooftop bar, Pour09. The food at Ko Korean was delicious, and the decor created the perfect dinner vibes.

The next day, we were able to see the true evolution of the city of Beaumont on our city tour with the Spindletop Cruisers. You can click here to view their cycling tour options, and I recommend trying one of evening rides.

Beaumont had truly evolved since my brother’s college graduation in 2009, and in discussing the three biggest changes that have occurred since he left, we identified the key changes below:

-Lamar University has grown and expanded substantially since his graduation.

-There are many MORE things to do and places to go in Beaumont.

-Beaumont politics have become more diverse, and there are more younger black people in office than ever before Beaumont’s history. During our stay in Beaumont, the city even elected its first black female mayor.

The finale of my Beaumont trip was Sunday brunch at Suga’s, and we truly had a good Southern style meal complete with live music. I’m looking forward to my next trip to Beaumont, and you can checkout my Beaumont reels with additional gems by clicking here.

This post was a collaboration with Visit Beaumont, however, all opinions expressed are my own. Also, some of the links in this blog are affiliate links, meaning at no additional cost to you, I will earn a commission if you click through and make a purchase.

LOCAL GUIDE: HOUSTON BRUNCH FAVS

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Brunch is absolutely one of my favorite meals of the weekend.  There is nothing like enjoying mimosas and signature entrees with friends and/or family at trendy eateries with delicious food and great service.  Below are some of my favorite brunch spots in and around the Houston area:

The General Public

This place has been one of my favorites since its grand opening a few months ago.   Whether you are trying their fried quail and hotcakes or the bacon crab stack, my personal favorites, the perfect accent to any meal at The General Public are their $1 mimosas.

Grace’s

Besides having exceptional food, this trendy Upper Kirby restaurants makes frozen mimosas that will keep you coming back time and time again.  Although slightly pricey, the atmosphere and delectable cuisine are exactly what you have come to expect from restaurants in the Johnny Carrabba’s chain.

Dish Society

This place was recommended several times before I had the opportunity to finally make it to their La Centerra location.  And let me be honest, I am absolutely addicted to their brisket stuffed sweet potato and smoked Gouda grits.

The Houstonian

Even though most of us probably know of this fabulous hotel for its upscale accommodations and infamous Trellis Spa, their Center Court Restaurant might have some of the best breakfast omelets in the city.

Brasserie 19

This restaurant is still sitting on my list of must try brunches, but I’ve heard nothing but rave reviews, and their brunch menu has enough options for even the pickiest foodie.

 What are some of your favorite brunch spots in and around the city of Houston?

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LOCAL GUIDE: DINER EN BLANC HOUSTON

About 2 years ago, I remember scrolling through Eventbrite and coming across an informational meeting/preview party for something called Diner En Blanc. After doing some research through social media on the hashtag and asking some friends in other cities, I decided that if nothing else the preview party was worth my time.

In order to shorten the story, I went to the meeting and discovered that this international affair would be making its debut in Houston, and even with all of the mixed reviews from friends that had attended in other cities, I rounded up willing participants and waited patiently to receive my invite. Diner En Blanc requires that each guest brings one other attendee, whether it be your significant other or BFF. For weeks leading up to the day, I watched videos and read blog posts of this fabulous, all white event, affectionately called DEB for short (when I wasn’t on Pinterest pinning decor and fashion ideas).

Invites to Diner En Blanc are issued in three phases, with the first phase being dedicated to friends of the organization, past attendees, etc, all the way to Phase 3, where a limited number of slots are opened to those on the Waiting List. Needless to say, Diner En Blanc goes the extra mile to keep the crowd exclusive, and did I mention that the event is held at a secret location that’s only announced as ticketed guests are in transit.

Diner En Blanc (Washington, DC)

Diner En Blanc (Washington, DC)

As with most inaugural events, the first Diner En Blanc in Houston had its issues, and while I missed last year’s event, this year I had an absolute blast. Here are my 5 tips to making your first Diner En Blanc a success:

1) The Phases- If there is a Diner En Blanc in your city, you can go on that city’s DEB website, select register to become a new member, and enter your email address to be Wait Listed for the next event. Remember, Diner En Blanc only happens once a year, usually in the summer. (Yes, I know this year’s DEB was in November, but that is not the norm for most cities). Unless you are a special invited guest or friend of one of the organizers, you will most likely be in Phase 3 for your first Diner En Blanc. My advice if you are in Phase 3 is to be ready to book as soon as Phase 3 opens for ticket purchases. And you guessed it, Phase 1 opens first, followed by Phase 2, and final slots are for Phase 3. On the DEB website for your city, you can find the exact date and time for each Phase to buy tickets once a date has been set for that year, and you will get email reminders with your unique invitation code prior to your date. My newbie DEB friends were so anxious on the day that Phase 3 spots opened that when tickets went on sale at 10:00am, I honestly had 3 friends on conference call, one friend on my work phone, and 2 texting me to make sure that they did everything right, ALL at the same time. When purchasing your tickets, you will have to choose a bus location to catch your ride to the “secret” location and a table leader. Friends that want to sit together will need to choose the same bus and table leader.

DEB Tip: Ticketed guests have the option to sponsor a guest, meaning, they can send out one special invite to a non-member. This allows guests in other phases to purchase their tickets sooner and not have to risk all spaces being sold out. Be advised, sponsored guests aren’t automatically invited back the next year.

2) The Preparation- I’m going to be honest and say that securing your spot is probably the easy part. The preparation is where it gets real. Diner En Blanc has very specific rules for its attendees and failure to comply could result in your being turned away from the entrance and forfeiting your fees. Here are the rules in a nut shell:

  • Your outfit must be ALL white from head-to-toe. No pops of color, unless that pop is on your lips. The Houston organizers allowed nude or beige shoes, but they made it clear that was the only exception to the rule.

  • You have to bring your own table and chairs. The table must be square and between 28 and 32 inches. Your table doesn’t have to be white, as it will be covered by a white tablecloth, however, your chairs must be unless you plan to bring chair covers. You can click here to view the easy to carry table I bought for the event and here to view the chairs.

  • You will need to bring a multi-course meal (unless you pre-purchase from the e-store), trash bag, table linens, tabledecor, silverware, plates/bowls, glassware (not plastic), and all white napkins for the signature napkin wave before dinner. Outside alcohol is not permitted, but you can purchase wine and champagne from the e-store.

Via Pinterest.

Via Pinterest.

DEB Tip: If you’re not into cooking multi-course meals or know that you will be running short on time, you can always pick up food from your favorite eateries. I was tempted to pick up a lobster bisque from 51Fifteen and one of the pre-made dinners from HEB, but since my group divided and conquered, I decided to take one for the team. And that leads to #3.  It sounds harder than it is, I promise.

3) Where 2 or more are gathered … The inaugural DEB in Houston wasn’t perfect, but I still had such a blast, that there were 7 friends (8 of us total) that were down for the cause this year. 8 willing able-bodied ticketed attendees, meant that we were able to divvy up the menu and tasks. You know your friends strongest assets (and their weakest ones), so we had one table take on the task of table decor for our 4 tables, one table that tackled dessert (meaning went to Nothing Bundt Cakes and Omazing Occasions), one group that made salad (because anyone can make or buy a salad), and my group was over dinner. Since the boudin stuffed chicken was such a hit at the first Diner En Blanc, we decided to run it back with bacon wrapped asparagus. The key to picking your food is choosing foods that are still delectable when lukewarm. Every group had to be responsible for some things on their own, like the tables, chairs, trash bags, plates, etc, but for the most part, we divided up the tasks leaving us with less to carry and less to stress over. Even if you are just going with your one guest, find ways to simplify your life, and don’t try to do everything. At least wait until your 2nd Diner En Blanc to hang the wisteria from the vase and down your table… Unless you’re just good like that. I’m not.

Our simple, yet elegant, table decor.

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DEB Tip: While unpacking the decor and decorating our tables, we realized that we had somehow left our wine glasses. If I have not learned anything else in life, I have learned that ish happens and that there’s usually always a solution to “fake” serious problems. Instead of panicking or using all of my favorite four and five letter words like I tend to do under pressure, I grabbed my purse and proceeded to walk to find the nearest store or something. That “something” ended up being the restaurant across the street that let me borrow a few glasses for a $10 holding other people stuff fee. They were not as cute as the ones that we had initially planned to use to adorn our tables, but the Moet flowed from them just the same.

4) Pack Light(ish)- I’m not sure if that’s a word, but let me explain. Yes, you have to bring your own table and chairs and channel your inner Martha Stewart, but the goal is to condense as many things as possible and to pack smarter, not harder. Ideally, you would bring a white picnic basket to Diner En Blanc, because it is essentially the fanciest picnic in the world, BUT that’s not a requirement (as long as your storage items can fit under your table). The first year we brought card tables, because they fit the size requirements, but we didn’t take into consideration how heavy those tables are in dress clothes and heels. This year, I got on Amazon and ordered a light table in a carry bag that slung easily over my back. The best thing is that after your first DEB, you won’t have to purchase these types of items again.  Remember, whatever you bring, you have to carry, and it’s hard being cute and working for a moving service at the same time.

DEB Tip: Go with a man or pair with a friend that has one. They might not help decorate the table, but they are great for carrying the heavy stuff (especially since they most likely won’t be wearing heels).

5) Remember, you did all of this to have fun … I’m still trying to figure out where DEB Houston found the DJ, because even with the mishaps like the catering company not showing up until extra late with half of the orders missing, I didn’t see one person sitting down or not looking like they were having a great time. If you don’t believe me, search the hashtag #DEBHOU17. I saw one caption that read, “My food never came, but Diner En Blanc owes me absolutely nothing.” I think I might have Swag Surfed so hard I almost broke my shoe. The food mishap might have been something that could have ruined the entire night for some guests, but between the full refund given to ALL those that paid for a catered meal and Simply Pho’s takeout menu (the same restaurant that let me borrow the glasses), most of us were full (of food, libations, and cheer) and are waiting for the next, “Dinner in White.”

Us.

DEB Tip: I swear that ish was as fun as it looked.

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